Updated: Apr 12, 2020
Everything looks the same but nothing is the same. I am sitting here and the power of reflection is becoming so clear. I can see my life changing before my eyes. It's happening and I get to witness it and live it all at the same time.
I was supposed to go through pain and hurt and grief and loss. I was and am supposed to feel heartbreak and sadness and loneliness. Because without it I wouldn’t feel how I do right now. I wouldn’t feel the importance of taking hold of my life like I am right now.
We can all change at any given point in our lives.
All it takes is a choice and choosing that choice again and again and again.
No one can decide what your life is gonna be but you. Yet we constantly forget that. We constantly let our fears of what will other people think dictate who we are and who we are meant to be.
The 5 people you surround yourself with is the person you will become.
Choose wisely and choose unapologetically because every single person in this world deserves to be exactly the person they are meant to be.
Without taking a chance and living uncomfortably we'll never find who we are and what we want to do. We will never live into the person we want to be so badly. We will never live this life intentionally, unapologetically and so lovingly without taking a million risks. And falling and failing and LEARNING.
Choose the people who surround you, choose them because they lift you up, they believe in you, they challenge you and they love you.
Choose you. Choose to be the you you have always wanted to be. Because if not now, then when?